Kevin Miller Did the Right Thing
Posted: October 5, 2009 Filed under: 16419976, People, Pitts Indeed, Soap Box, Thought Food | Tags: cambria heights shooting, jon pitts-wiley, kevin miller and nnonso ekwegbalu, Pitts Indeed, youth violence Leave a comment »
He saw a fight that didn’t involve him and ran.
He saw a fight that didn’t involve him and booked it up the block because the dudes fighting at the intersection were none of his concern. Whatever they were beefing about wasn’t any of his business. He and his buddy just wanted to catch a little McDonald’s on a Friday after school. That could certainly wait until these knuckleheads were finished.
So he and his buddy ran.
Kevin Miller ran as fast as his 13-year old body would carry him down the block, away from trouble. The money his mother gave him would have to wait. The few extra dollars he got for doing his chores and getting good grades would have to spend a few more minutes burning a hole in his pocket.
Sure, it was Friday. But Friday’s fun would have to wait until the knuckleheads were finished scrappin.’ So he did the right thing. He ran.
But one of the knuckleheads, fighting at an intersection over something almost certainly worthless, didn’t care about the money burning a hole in Kevin’s pocket; didn’t care about the few extra bucks his mother gave him that morning for being the kind of kid that does the right thing. See, that knucklehead decided he had to prove his point at that intersection; that he had to be right.
But he missed. He missed the worthless point he felt so eager to make. He missed the point that his right was wrong.
He missed. And Kevin fell. His mother’s money still in his pocket.
We have to do better. We have to believe…
Joe, Serena and Kanye: Indignation in Three Acts
Posted: September 14, 2009 Filed under: 16419976, People, Pitts Indeed, Thought Food | Tags: Beyonce, jon pitts-wiley, Pitts Indeed, president obama, serena williams and kanye west and joe wilson, single ladies, taylor swift, us open, VMAs Leave a comment »I know why they snapped.
They’re passionate people who had particular opinions on some matter or other–health care, foot faults, the ‘Single Ladies’ video–and were compelled to express that passionate opinion in a particular way.
I get that. Joe and Serena and Kanye felt a certain way.
I’m more puzzled by the numbers of people apologizing, to varying degrees, for them. I understand loyalty and nuance and historical context and the like, but as I see this supportive closing of ranks, I’m starting to believe it’s more fundamental than loyalty, nuance, and context.
I’m beginning to think these people feel themselves the good people of Nottingham forest who are being avenged by brazen, if tactless, acts of defiance.
Shorter Pitts-Wiley: People like seeing authority figures get shitted on for a change.
Was Joe Wilson right? Maybe; he’s at least entitled to his beliefs.
Did Serena foot fault? Nope.
Was Kanye right regarding the video? Yup.
But each incident quickly became about more than being right; it became about humiliation.*
Being right and humiliating another person in the process is a nut most people can’t help but bust. Why?
Because, on a lot of levels, people are just animals with opposable thumbs and reflexive thought; animals that go through life getting teabagged with little to no recourse and any opportunity to put the shoe in another butt is one worth championing. We couple being right and humiliation in the same category: Inflicting injury.
The irony is, we want our right to hurt so good that we bust that nut too early; we get caught up in the theatrics of making our point and leave it to the teabagged to parse out the reasonable point we intended to make.
They do the work of explaining while others just sign the autographs.
*Author’s Note: I think Serena is harder to classify in this collection of fuckery because she snapped in the heat of battle. I don’t think she was right, but her outburst can be reasonably explained, unlike Joe Wilson’s– who thought this was a debate at the Yale Political Union–and unlike Kanye’s–who decided to embarrass a little white girl whom he knew he could punk off.