Some folks are wondering why questions of sexuality are bring raised for Elena Kagan when they were not done for Sonia Sotomayor. In my mind, it boils down to something fairly basic:
Kagan is white and Sotomayor is not.*
Let me explain. For the type of people who are fond of profiling, Kagan fits the description: white, unmarried, intellectual, not terribly “attractive”. Black or Latina women that fall into that same line aren’t questioned on their sexuality because they don’t “seem” gay; they’re just cast as accomplished yet pitiable career women who have little hope of snaring a mate with whom to settle down.
In the American conscience, to be a lesbian of a certain age is really just shorthand for being a feminist; a card-carrying member of NOW and an acolyte of Betty Friedan. While I won’t go so far as to say the sexual aspect of the questions regarding Kagan’s sexuality are irrelevant, I will say I think these inquiries are more a petty and contemptuous probing of her feminism. (I strongly doubt the president would have the stones to nominate a possibly gay man for the bench
since male sexuality whips people into a different kind of frenzy).
It’s the radical feminist menace that ruffled the old boys’ feather and the representatives of that menace were overwhelmingly–and often deliberately–white.
The feminist movements in the United States had parallel histories split between the predominantly white–and highly exclusionary–narrative and the one that included women of color in this struggle. The former was able to set the tone in many regards and became the face of “what a feminist is.”
For many, feminists are merely smartypants white women that hate men and don’t do as they’re told. Given this perception, the “oh, well she’s probably a lesbian” coup de grace wasn’t/isn’t exactly a leap. In many ways, it’s the white version of being called uppity.
The logic:
- Kagan = Unmarried White woman intellectual of no particular beauty.
- Lesbians are unmarried White women intellectuals of no particular beauty.
- Feminists are unmarried White women intellectuals of no particular beauty.
- Feminists hate men.
- Lesbians hate men.
- Feminist = Lesbian
- Lesbian = Feminist
- Kagan = Lesbian = Feminist?
*A friend brought up the great point that the reason Sotomayor wasn’t questioned in that regard is because she was married once before. A reasonable point, though not bulletproof. A previous marriage certainly lends itself to avoiding certain questions, though marriage is by no means proof of being straight. Perhaps the figure of Condi Rice is more appropriate in this regard. The questions regarding her personal life were, more often than not, framed as, “Why doesn’t she have a man?” rather than “Is she gay?”
So sayeth the haranguers spewing poetic on what should be done with Khalid Sheik Mohammed and his merry band of mass murderers. They’ve come up with excuse that range from questions of safety to that of jurisdiction, but the upshot of it all seems to be this:
We don’t trust the Feds in New York City to punch this one through.
To which I ask, as politely as possible: Can you pass that dutchie to the left hand side? It’s clearly some of that deaf bubonic.
Let’s think this out loud: New York City, the site of the worse mass murder in the history of the United States, has a chance to get its hands on some of the scoundrels who perpetrated said mass murder and their gonna bungle this? The same people who would send back food that is “too hot” are gonna let this slide? It would seem the discussion should turn to whether or not New York is a safe place for KSM and Friends to be.
My gut tells me that the supporters of the tribunals have simple reasons for wanting to go that route. Rubberband to my head, I’d say it’s because they think the military will be harder on these guys. Not only will they convict them, they’ll convict them hard.
If KSM and Co. were convicted by a military tribunal, they’d spend the rest of their days getting tapdanced on by dudes in crew cuts in between waterboarding sessions and electrocution that involves nipple clamps. And all of this would take place in that shadowy Military World where the rules are just different. Or so hope, I think, the people who want to see a tribunal go down.
Shorter Pitts-Wiley: They want these dudes put in the hurt locker, military-style.
They want a vicious pimp hand to come down on the 9/11 plotters and they think the Feds in New York are too weak in the wrist.
The Feds in the city where these knuckleheads helped murdered 3,000 people. A city where people don’t even let too-hot food slide.*
Hm.
*Yes; you can probably reasonably argue that the Feds in a city aren’t necessarily representative of said city, but I get the sense that, from sea to shining sea, the Feds in the area take on the musk and complexion of the locale. When something happens in their neck of the woods, they take it personally. If I did something terroristic in New York City, best believe I’m not trying to see their Fed game.
Getting a lot of interesting feedback regarding my Nidal Malik Hasan post, and wanted to take the time to respond to some recurring themes in the responses. I’m gonna tackle them piecemeal so as to hopefully be more clear.
In initially writing on Hasan, I opened up the discussion with examples of sociopathic mass murders from all different cultural and ethnic backgrounds and I think my use of sensational figures may have overshadowed some of the point I was making. I used these famous killers to highlight the fact that, in my opinion, their mental health/states was infinitely more important than their cultural background. It wasn’t to say that they were of no relevance; rather, it was to say that they were not of supreme importance. I used names that would grab the attention of readers from jump, but may have erred in the parallel due to the fact that the examples I used were sociopaths in a class by themselves, a group to which Hasan may not belong. Read the rest of this entry »
Far be it from me to not enjoy healthy cultural and racial discourse, but today’s New York Times piece by Rachel Swarns and Jodi Kantor’s detailing First Lady Michelle Obama’s genealogy, which includes an unknown white great-great-great grandfather, has a troubling puffiness to it. They write
Yes; you just saw people slap five at the president catching a fail.
While you can argue whether those sentiments were anti-American in nature–they were, in my opinion–you can’t argue the fact that the elation stemmed from President Obama losing at something. Anything that can be perceived as knocking dude down a peg is a tremendous moral victory for those that hate his guts.
Just now I took a look into the future
Something only the foolish or dying would dare
Just now I took a look into the future
To see if my living had been in vain
Just now I took a look into the future…
This morning, I woke up on the same futon and heard the rush of traffic outside my homegirl’s window. This morning, I woke up with the same couple of dollars in my pocket, threw on my same black jeans, the classic red and black North Face, my newly-polished old Dunks and headed out in search of some newspaper. This morning, I stepped outside my door and heard the din of children’s screams and laughter from across the street; the same din from the same kids at the same school. Looking into the silver gray sky, standing in so much sameness, I knew the world was a completely different place.
I saw a fruit tree dripping with dew
The sky full of wild birds homeward bound
I saw a man bend down and drink water from a river
Ten thousand children playin’ in the rain…
Since last night, everyone I’ve spoken to is working hard to somehow grasp this moment. What will we say to our children? What will we tell them of this day? While I have never been one to shy away from hyperbole, I’ll do so now. There is no exaggeration worthy of this moment, so, for my children, I begin with this…
Just now I took a look into the future
I saw Red people
Black people
White people
Yellow people
I saw Brown people, Red people, Black, Yellow, White people
Gathered at the rainbow place chanting…
Before November 4th, 2008 at around 11:30pm EST, The single most important event of my lifetime took place on the 11th of September, 2001. I was a junior at the Abbey then and a morning assembly had been called. My pals and I were in the student center at thetime and a sudden all for assembly gave me cause to pause. As we made the sojourn from student center to auditorium, the only thing going through my mind was, “Crap, someone shot Bush.” Interestingly, when the thought crossed my mind, I felt a pang of conflicted sorrow–I doubted I would mourn him as I would have mourned my own presidential choice, but I was struck by the fact that it made me sadder than I thought it would when the theoretical arose. We reached the assembly hall and our headmaster calmly told us a plane had hit the World Trade Towers. His voice was even-toned; concerned but not alarmed. I think the general sense was that a biplane had gone off course and clipped one of the towers. Things seemed a bit more fishy when they released us from our morning class obligations.
Some of the guys and gals headed down to St. Bede’s–the day student dorm–to see what the fuss was all about. We clicked on the TV and watched the greatest action movie everyone never wanted to see. A 747 was flying into a giant building, just like the movies. Windows blowing out for forty stories in each direction as the plane burst into flames. Except there was no cut to our hero or villain delivering some pithy one-liner. There was only a terrifying silence accented by the sound of everyone attempting to call anyone and everyone they knew in New York and DC. It took me a long time to get through to my brother in DC. The whole time, the only thing I could think was, “If these mufuckas killed my brother, it’s on. For life.” The only thing I remember distinctly is that the whole world was making a phone call and no one was getting through.
On and on
Times moving on and on and
On and on
Times moving on and on…
November 4th, 2008 was tantamount to 9/11. Except the complete opposite. After spending seven years living in a state of perpetual fear, sometimes real and often imagined, living in times that seemed increasingly cynical and devoid of hope, 52% of the American public took a chance. With the future at stake, the people threw their support behind a man with dreams on his mind.
I was living in New York City at the time. My girlfriend Kim and I had gone home the day before so we could vote. We knew we weren’t about to be swing state heroes, but this election was important. It was the most important. And while I was too lazy to fill out an absentee ballot anyway, I was glad I went home. I got up with mom and pop and we all went and exercised our right. And it felt good. Once I submitted my ballot, I avoided all election talk. Now the shit was real and I didn’t want to stress myself out. We hitched a ride back to New York with Melissa, one of my dunnies from the day. We listened to cd’s the whole way. While riding through Harlem on the way to 109th street, I saw a video screen saying Obama was getting crushed in electoral college votes, sixteen to three. That immediately gave me an extreme sense of foreboding, not unlike the feeling I had after Plaxico Burress beat Ellis Hobbs for that touchdown in the Super Bowl the year before, except about something that would alter the destiny of my country. The whole rest of the ride, I sat in silence and stewed; we’d all known it was a possibility he could lose, but I never imagined how bad I would feel about the actual possibility of it happening. Obama losing would have signaled the end of…everything. His defeat would be our Kennedy assassination. Maybe worse, because we didn’t see any Bobbies coming down the pike.
We got back to Morningside Heights–we were staying with my homegirl TIng while we got on our feet in the city–around 8:15. My mood was something far beyond salty. When we hit the buzzer, Steve Biko–he was doing his Columbia Law thing at the time–answered, sounding fairly light of heart. That pissed me off. Thefuture’s falling to the wayside and he’s playing intercom jokes. When we reached Thug’s Mansion–or apartment 5A as the super called it–the mood in the room was light; not arrogant but cautiously optimistic. Alogn with Steve Biko and of course Ting, Aileen, one of Ting’s nursing school goonies was there, posted up on the couch. There was beer and wine and vodka, and Mexican grub–you might say we were prepared either way. When I expressed my frustration at Obama’s being dominated in the electoral college votes, my friends looked at me quizzically. “Jon,” they said, “It’s 103 to 16.” Apparently I didn’t see the screen right. But it was still early.
We flipped between multiple news channels trying to get the latest and most accurate-seeming scoop. Jokes abounded as we tried to not jinx the enormity of the moment. Biko, more of a wonk than the rest of us, sat more confident than most, he knew how the college worked and knew the math of it. Still, we were nervous. We’d seen how math could do funny thing in times like these.
It was around 1130 or so, when they called California and we knew it was over.
I cried a little. We all got on our phones. Just like 9/11, you could barely get a call through. Unlike 9/11, we felt like we had been delivered from fear. I called my dad and just kept screaming, “They tried to kill us but they couldn’t! THEY TRIED TO KILL US BUT THEY COULDN’T!” I asked him to put my mom on the phone, but apparently, she was at Rhode Island’s democratic headquarters huckabuckin’. Then I called my various cohorts and henchpeople and shouted essentially the same thing I had to my dad. The roar from the streets was too loud to ignore, so Kim and I took to the streets.
Out on Amsterdam, Brown people, red people, black, yellow, and white people danced in the streets. People hugged, pumped fists, took random pictures and rejoiced. A cacophony of car horns never sounded sweeter. We knew we needed to stay out and savor it, so I called AJ and we went over to post up at his homegirl’s place. On the way there I called both my grandmothers and thanked them. We were truly standing on the shoulders of giants. When we got to the crib, we drank a little more and waited for Obama’s acceptance speech. We had two computers set up, just in case any of the streaming feed got screwed up. These words were going to be too important. As he spoke, we all sat in silence, just nodding our heads. Then we went home because there was nothing left to say.
Just now I took a look into the future
I had to see if we made it through
Just now I took a look into the future
I had to see if what it would be…
I cannot at this moment articulate what this means. It’s still too early and too giant and too…everything. So like I said, I won’t use hyperbole. I’ll merely state the facts, facts that cannot be altered or quibbled with:
I heard a newborn baby cry
While a mother and father smiled at the child
I saw a man bend down and drink water from a river
Ten thousand people singin’ in the rain…
The most powerful person in the world goes by the name of Barack Hussein Obama. The son of an Kenyan father and Irish-American mother, he is the 44th president-elect of a nation which had, less than 150 years earlier, not considered people such as himself human, much less citizens. That’s to say nothing of the subsequent 150 years which could be considered less than comfy. On November 4th, 2008 at around 11:30 EST, Barack Hussein Obama was elected the 44th President of the United States of America. And I saw it happen.
Just now I took a look into the future
I saw Red people
Black people
White people
Yellow people
I saw Brown people, Red people, Black, Yellow, White people
Gathered at the rainbow place chanting
We crossed over from the Madness Time
We crossed over from the Madness Time
We crossed over from the Madness Time
And we’re never going back again
No we’re never going back again
No we’re never going back
Are you gonna be ready?
I almost ruined a subtly life-altering event so I could sit down and write about the experience. Sometimes people can’t get out of their own way. Peace to G Band Free.
It’s often assumed that working a job that does not jive with your interest (or wallet) serves the purpose of “telling you what you don’t want to do” or “makes you appreciate jobs you like that much more.” The above platitudes, of course, tells you absolutely nothing. With the exception of jobs that you honestly thought you would like but turned out to be terrible, you were probably already aware that you didn’t really want to do the job; indeed, as your bank account dwindled and some loan officer or another kept blowing your phone up, your decision came down to which form of prostitution–including prostitution itself–you would subject yourself to for financial gain. Of course, in those instances, there are some who have epiphanies; in a pressure situation, life slowed down just enough to make some employment desire or interest abundantly clear to them. For most of us doing jobs we don’t particularly care for, that is not the case.
Because life has a funny sense of humor, jobs we don’t care for often times do not point us in the direction of jobs we would care for. In fact, jobs we don’t care for only make us yearn for not doing any job at all. Jobs we don’t care for seem to only serve the purpose of making us tolerate eight hours at work that we might gain the weekend as a reward. I’ve found in the five or so years in which I’ve had myriad jobs that ranged from “hm, this isn’t terribly engaging” to “God, I hope I have a slip and fall accident at work” we spend a good deal of time being catty and bitchy about the jobs we don’t care for, intermittently accenting said cat bitchery with bittersweet exultations about what we plan to drink this weekend and doing little else. Having been both torch bearer and pitchfork wielder in this familiar mob, I can tell you it has only helped me to determine I didn’t particularly care for whatever job I was doing. This is somewhat redundant since I not only knew I didn’t particularly care for the job before applying, but was very likely brandishing my pitchfork while I grumbled my way to the stockroom to get more hats/sweaters/sneakers/Endorush.
(Sidebar 1: Lest I sound like a hypocrite to the Crookeds and The Straights project, understand that no matter if you love or hate your job, there is someone or something about the job that chaps your ass. If you have no idea what I’m talking about, just keep reading and don’t trouble yourself with the above clarification. But if you really want to know, go check out http://www.crookedsandstraights.blogspot.com)
The other day on my day off, a day in which I was contemplating turning in my nametag for the umpteenth time, I decided to chat up The Michelle. Having known her for some time, I should have known it was less than prudent to begin haranguing against my job, but I of course did. Here’s a dramatization of conversation:
Me: This job is beneath me!
TM: Yes; it is.
Me: I’mgonna just quit! I went to too much school to abide this garbage. I’m taking too many lateral steps.
TM: So make a decision, take a forward one and call me back when your testicles drop.
*SCENE*
So I put out my torch, dropped my pitchfork, and did just that.
Perhaps because we fear self-reflection and evaluation, people don’t realize that the answers to their fulfillment, at least with regard to employment, is a question that must be asked of the self. It’s a fairly tall order to ask a job you never wanted to sate your passion. In my case, I have much less of an excuse because–for the time being–I have a very good idea of how I want to spend my hours. In fact, I’ve probably always known it, but shied away from it as I grew older and learned what fear and “knowing better” was. The depth of self-evaluation and reflection it takes to accept the facts can be staggering. The journey to discovering your passion often reveals exactly who you are, good and bad, to the one person it is impossible to lie to. If you don’t know what you want to do with your life, the first thing you have to do is ask the question.
Unless you live an abundantly charmed life, there will be a time when you have to do a job you don’t want to do. What purpose does such a thing serve? The easy answer is that it helps you bridge the gap to your passion. If you’re a photographer, that job at Foot Locker helps buy film. I’ve found recently that the work has gotten light to me because I have no illusions as to why I am there. Perhaps this is coming from a place of detached arrogance or perhaps I just believe I can close the gap, but I sweat this situation much less because it is temporary.
But there’s more than that. Unfortunately, the following statement applies more soundly to people that have an idea of what they want to do, but if you’re willing to put the leg work in with regard to discovering your passion or interests, this will still be holding water when you get back. Jobs you don’t care for tell you why you don’t care for them and why you do care for your other interests. While wearing a nametag and punching a clock every day is abhorrent to my sensibilities, they are merely annoyances in the face of what I feel the essence of my actual job is. No matter how good it feels to close a membership deal and get a few more coins in my pocket–and believe me, I do get a kick out of the chess match and the resultant pennies–I can never feel fully invested in the work.
As I sat at my desk earlier this week, using gamesmanship and my gabbing gift to sign a young woman on a fixed income to a membership that both suited her income and my commission check–while I never cross ethical lines, I am a salesman; hence, I can always give a person a better deal than they are getting, but to do so would hurt my income–I had a simple yet profound insight. Though, on a technical level, my professional interests lie in quarterbacking the make-believe, I never feel like I am lying when I do it. Peace to Willy Loman.
Penultimate Thought: Though Jamaican, I’m glad the fastest man in the world is 6’5.
Final Thought: I have no idea where they throw dumpsters out.